Bonnie Raitt, “I Can’t Make You Love Me”


It’s not often that a song becomes a classic, even a standard. But “I Can’t Make You Love Me,” Bonnie Raitt’s two-verse, two-chorus heart-rending ballad of unrequited love, has become both of those. And even though it’s never been regarded as a country song, “I Can’t Make You Love Me” was written by Nashville writers Mike Reid and Allen Shamblin, who were, and still are, well-noted for their successes in the country arena.

Reid, a onetime NFL lineman, has had many cuts by Ronnie Milsap, as well as George Jones, Tim McGraw and others, while Shamblin has had hits with Keith Urban, Miranda Lambert, Gary Allan and more. But neither of them may ever duplicate the success of “I Can’t Make You Love Me.” Since Raitt cut it in 1991, the song has been recorded by Nancy Wilson, Kenny Rogers, George Michael, Kelly Clarkson…and the list goes on and on. But the song apparently didn’t have an easy labor, taking months of rewrites.

“We wrote, most every week, in Mike’s basement,” Shamblin told Peter Cooper in an interview with the Nashville Tennessean. “And we’d worked on this song for more than six months. One day, he said, ‘Come up to the living room,’ where his piano was. He sat down and started playing this melody, and it was one of the most moving pieces of music I’d heard. I mean, it hit me in a hard way…Instantly, I knew it was the best thing I’d ever been a part of.”

Raitt and producer Don Was recorded the song for Raitt’s Luck of the Draw album, with spare, but trademark, piano by Bruce Hornsby. The album has since sold more than 13 million copies in the U.S., and “I Can’t Make You Love Me” has become Raitt’s signature song, especially for radio listeners who were unaware of her roots as a blues artist. Most recently the song has been introduced to a whole new generation of music lovers by acts like R&B artist Tank, indie artist Bon Iver, and by Adele, who performs it in her 2011 Adele Live At The Royal Albert Hall CD/DVD package.

“Of all the songs in my career, that one is the greatest gift,” Raitt told Rolling Stone. “I think it stands among the best songs ever written.” The magazine named it Number 339 on its list of the 500 Greatest Songs of All Time, though many would probably beg to differ with that ranking.

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  1. These are powerful words, describing a situation and emotions that are almost too much to bear. Especially if one has been through the horrible pain of a divorce they didn’t want, where the other person has fallen out of love with them. I’ve lived through that hell and I remember hearing this song towards the end of our marriage and it was so fitting.

  2. I would never buy this song. It’s sad and it’s a drag. I live, we got to give a little love, have a little hope, make it a little better. Whoa Whoa Whoa.

  3. You’re a goober. This is one of the greatest songs ever written, delivered by one of the most soulful voices we’ve ever had the pleasure to hear, and textured by one of the most innovative musicians/piano players on the planet. Open your small mind, Craigo and let the emotion spill into your veins. Let it rip out your heart, step on it, and walk away. Sometimes life IS a drag…but you have to live it before you understand it. Thank you, Bonnie and Bruce (and Don). This gift is one of the sweetest…

  4. Sad songs are NOT selling so it is a DRAG. Released in TODAY’s market is would FLOP. UPBEAT is in SAD, Depressed is OUT.

  5. Oh, well, yeah, in that case you are sooooo right on, man. I mean, it’s all about sellin’, right? Today’s market, yeah, that’s it dude. Far out, cool, hip, lame and all that, right? I’ll bet your 16 and think One Direction is AWESOME?


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