When meeting someone for the first time, there are certain social expectations you can anticipate during the interactionโunless, of course, youโre Elton John meeting Brian Wilson for the first time. Social norms mean nothing when two creative forces collide, which John quickly learned when the Beach Boys founder opened the door and immediately began singing one of Johnโs classic tracks to his face, pre-hello, pre-handshake.
It was an odd first encounter, surely. But the quintessentially Wilson experience led to a lasting friendship and professional relationship built on mutual love and respect.
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Elton John Recalls Meeting Brian Wilson For The First Time
Brian Wilson and his iconic pop group, the Beach Boys, had already reached the apex of their fame by the time Elton John released his debut album, Empty Sky, in 1969. Like so many other artists at that time, John found Wilson to be a massive musical influence. He used to lie on his floor and listen to the Beach Boysโ records for hours. Once his star rose high enough, John was able to pay a personal visit to his heroโs house. In the documentary Brian Wilson: Long Promised Road, John called the experience โthe most amazing, surreal trip for me.โ
Adding to that surrealism was the way Wilson answered the door when John first arrived at his home with Three Dog Nightโs Danny Hutton. In a 2020 interview with Howard Stern, John recalled Wilson opening the door and saying, โOh! Elton John! I hope you donโt mind, I hope you donโt mind, I hope you donโt mind.โ Wilson was referencing Johnโs 1970 track, โYour Song,โ which he released on his eponymous sophomore album.
โIโm standing there, and Iโm going, โOh, my God,โ you know,โ John continued to Stern. โIโm so quaking in my boots anyway. It was an extraordinarily eccentric night because that was when he was living in the house with the sand in the dining room with the piano. I went there on the assumption that I was going to hear a 16-track of the 8-track of โGood Vibrations.โ We finally got around to doing it, and he would start playing, and ten seconds into the song, [Wilson would say], โNo, itโs not the right mix.โ So, we didnโt really get to hear the whole โGood Vibrations,โ and we were sitting there [until] 2 oโclock in the morning.โ
From One Musical Inspiration To Another
Elton John has been a musical inspiration to countless artists, but to reach that level of creative artistry, John first listened to Brian Wilson. In a tribute post following Wilsonโs death in June 2025, John wrote, โI grew to love him as a person, and for me, he was the biggest influence on my songwriting ever. He was a musical genius and revolutionary. He changed the goalposts when it came to writing songs and shaped music forever.โ
John said Wilsonโwas always so kind to me from the day I met him,โ alluding to that first encounter of Wilson singing โYour Songโ to John as he opened the door to his Bel-Air home. Speaking to Howard Stern in 2020, John said his time at Wilsonโs home was a singular experience. โJust being in the presence of someone like that,โ John said. โIโd never experienced anything like that in my life.โ
Notably, Wilson also tried to sell John the piano sitting in his sand-filled dining room in Beverly Hills. John ultimately turned the offer down, but he gained an impressive accolade of being one of the few people who can say the Beach Boys founder tried to sell him one of his most iconically wacky instruments.
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30th January 1969: British rock group the Beatles performing their last live public concert on the rooftop of the Apple Organization building for director Michael Lindsey-Hogg's film documentary, 'Let It Be,' on Savile Row, London, England. Drummer Ringo Starr sits behind his kit. Singer/songwriters Paul McCartney and John Lennon perform at their microphones, and guitarist George Harrison (1943 – 2001) stands behind them. Lennon's wife Yoko Ono sits at right. (Photo by Express/Express/Getty Images)







