In 1977, Linda Ronstadt released โPoor Poor Pitiful Meโ. The song, part of her Simple Dreams record, became a moderate hit for Ronstadt, also getting some airplay on country radio as well.
While Ronstadt is the first artist to have success with โPoor Poor Pitiful Meโ, it is actually a cover song. Warren Zevon, who wrote โPoor Poor Pitiful Meโ, first released the song in 1976, although it was not a hit single for him. But the song became well-known thanks to Ronstadt, who changed the song from a male perspective to one sung by a female. She also modified some of the lyrics as well.
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โIt was very much a guyโs song about gnarly encounters in hotel rooms,โ Ronstadt tells Vanity Fair with a laugh. โI had to leave some of the verses out.”
The chorus of Ronstadtโs version says, โPoor poor pitiful me / Poor poor pitiful me / Oh these boys won’t let me be / Lord have mercy on me / Woe woe is me.”
What Linda Ronstadt Says About Recording Warren Zevonโs โPoor Poor Pitiful Meโ
Ironically, Ronstadt has Jackson Browne to thank for her even hearing โPoor Poor Pitiful Meโ, let alone making it a hit, since itโs Browne who taught her the song. Browne and J.D. Souther visited Ronstadt one night. Ronstadt had no idea when the two songwriters visited her the impact it would have on her career in the future.
โWe were sitting up playing music one nightโIโve got a tape of the whole thing. Jackson taught me โPoor Pitiful Meโ, and J.D. taught me โBlue Bayou’. The verse in โPoor Pitiful Meโ was ‘Met a girl on the Sunset Strip,โ I think,” Ronstadt says. “โShe asked me if Iโd beat her / She took me up to her hotel room / And wrecked my mojo heater.โ It was really funny, and Iโm saying to Jackson, โI canโt sing those words, man! Thatโs not who I am. . . . I have to leave that part out.โโ
Ronstadt later says she believes โPoor Poor Pitiful Meโ works best sung by a female.
“To me that song seemed like the purest expression of male vanity,โ Ronstadt reflects. โStep on you, be insensitive, be unkind and give you a hard time, saying, ‘Can’t you take it? Can’t you take it?’ Then if you tease men in the slightest bit, they’ll just walk off with their feelings hurt, stomp off in a corner, and pout. I mean, that’s the way men are, I swear. I thought the verse turned around to a female point of view was just perfect. The gender change works perfectly.”
In 1996, Terri Clark had a Top 5 single with this song.
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